Suffering (Dukkha) Exists & Will Exist

One day, while returning from the Children’s Home, I was waiting at the bus stop. As I was standing there, I noticed a bike with a couple and their son, a small boy, sitting in the middle. The mother got down from the back, went to a roadside cart, bought a few packets of tobacco, returned to the bike and handed it to the boy to hold. And they just rode off. I, on the other hand, went on a different mental and emotional journey within myself.

There were a range of thoughts and feelings that were coming up and stirring me in different ways. That boy must have been about 10 years old and he was handed a packet of tobacco to hold by his own mother! What is going to happen when he grows older? This was a pertinent question for me because everyday at the Children’s Home, I am faced with this reality and I strongly discourage and disallow the kids there to have tobacco if I see them. And here outside, eating tobacco and smoking seems like the norm. “What am I trying to do? What am I supposed to do? Is there any merit in me being strict with the boys?” These kinds of questions kept creeping up.
From here on, this thought stayed with me and came up in different situations time and again. I started observing that some staff members working within the premises of the home itself, had a habit of eating tobacco; and some would even be chewing in front of the kids! Over time, I realized that this issue was much deeper and more ingrained in the system than I had initially thought.

This made me zoom out and look at the bigger picture and ask myself “how can this issue really be solved and who are the actual stakeholders who need to work on it?” And up came a complex web of interconnected issues and stakeholders – companies who produce these products, investors who invest in them, advertisers who promote and market it, celebrities that endorse them, governments that allow these because of tax gains, and on and on went the list. This made me feel a little bit helpless but also a little more conscious about every small action of mine in all aspects of life. 🙂

I started thinking whether these negative aspects within society will ever end? And an obvious reality hit like a profound insight – “Ofcourse it will not! Addiction to substances has been a reality since time immemorial, and perhaps it will continue for ages to come.” The next logical thought that came was that: this work, serving society, working towards a better life for all beings, is an infinite game, without an exit strategy! There is no end to this. There is no end to all suffering. Suffering is a reality of life.

And I was reminded of the Bodhisattva quote by Shantideva:

“For as long as space endures, And for as long as living beings remain, Until then may I too abide, To dispel the misery in the world.” –Shantideva–

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